Dr. Joe Nowinski's body of work comes from working in the trenches—not from any ivory tower. Episode 77 of Rebellion Dogs Radio looks at a run-of-the-mill problem in early recovery that doesn’t get enough ink: if we are together in a relationship and you go to treatment and come home to stay sober, should I live a sober life too? It’s your problem. Well, that’s one way to look at it; others would feel we are in this together. It’s our problem.
Here’s another case; a couple is together a long time. Still, their consumption (of alcohol or other drugs) has increased; neither has had legal or health scares. Nevertheless, their consumption has increased, and should they consider being a sober couple, or is sober just for people diagnosed as severe on the alcohol-use disorder spectrum? Are there some consequences to the relationship?
Dr. Joe Nowinski has a new book (Johns Hopkins Press Health Book, September 10, 2024) called Sober Love: How to Quit Drinking as a Couple. This is from case studies over years of family practice as a clinical psychologist.
Former Chief Medical Officer of Hazelden Betty Ford Marvin D. Seppala, MD, says, “Dr. Nowinski is a highly qualified expert who uses the latest research and his clinical expertise." Couples recognize that alcohol has interfered with their lives. “Alcohol can undermine even the best of relationships. Sober Love delivers the information necessary to develop a plan.”
Addiction Medicine doctor Ray Baker says, “I am delighted to recommend this gem of a book! It offers the knowledge, tips and skills needed for recovery people in intimate relationships to interconnect on their mutual journey of growth. It’s one of a kind.”
View SOBER LOVE now: https://amzn.to/4dcAhwO
If you’re a Rebellion Dogs Radio long-timer, you know Joe’s a repeat guest. Mary C and Joe C talk with Dr. Nowinski after reading his book. If you are new to Rebellion Dogs Radio, visit our website for links and further discussions:
Recovery After Rehab: A Guide for the Newly Sober and Their Loved Ones (2021) on Episode 62
If You Work It It Works! The Science Behind the 12 Steps (2015) on Episode 12.